Victoria Gray

Why My Subs Are Better Than Yours

I was chatting to a friend recently about how one of my subs sent me a tribute after we had talked for over an hour on the phone. He said he had paid for my time with a per min rate, and that he was showing his proper respects with the tribute. The tribute was $800.

My friend expressed jealousy. In her day job, she talks to guys for free all the time and they’re still rude to her.

“But my subs are different.” I told her, “They’re the best there is.”

“How do you know that?” She asked accusingly.

I shrugged with a smile, “I just do.” Then I went to tell her about some of the nice things they had done for me before going on to talk about their virtues – as individuals, then the ones they all shared.

By the time I was done, my friend was grinning broadly and I knew I had to share this wider than just that one private conversation over cocktails.

So here it is, the things all my long-term subs have in common…

Desire

Holding the desire to explore who they are as people and as sexual beings.

Communication

Although it might not be what brings them to me, having good communication skills underpins everything we do, as you’ll see…

Strength

Having the strength to know that society does not approve of or agree with who we are and what we are and choosing to do it anyway.

Self-Knowledge

Knowing thyself isn’t just famous words from Socrates, but is crucial for anyone wanting to explore the deep dark depths of their sexual selves.

Self-Care

Anyone who maintains this dynamic successfully for an extended period must understand what they need in order to look after themselves, in addition to looking after their Mistress.

Limits & Boundaries

They must know them and communicate them with me. If anyone tells me they have no limits, I know they are either too new or are lying.

So there is six things that I have identified all of my long-term submissives have in common, besides me of course! Am I missing anything? I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!